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The more you put yourself and your life out there for others to see, the more chances you have of never achieving anything big in life. Everyone should, at least once in their life, disconnect from the world and people, and disappear for a while. This is when personal growth and success truly begin — when you disappear for some time.
The Jealousy Trap: Why Privacy Wins
There is a tendency in most people to feel more jealous of others' achievements than to celebrate their own success. This is a natural sociological tendency because people always want to place themselves above others in everything. Financially, you should not let anyone know where you've disappeared to, what you're doing right or wrong. Just be yourself, working silently like a shadow, upgrading without anyone knowing.
The 3 Phases of Disappearing
There’s a complete process to disappearing from the world, which has three phases:
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First, you disappear.
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Then, work silently like a shadow.
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Finally, reappear with your transformed version.
If you miss any phase, especially the last one, your transformation won't happen, and you'll regret it for life.
Mastering Silence: Control Your Words
"You can change your world by changing your words." Your tongue can deceive you the most. If someone asks what you're doing or what your plans are, just say, "Nothing special, haven't decided yet." Keep important details hidden. Become silent, calm, and secretive. People should always wonder what you're thinking. Become a mystery.
People start work later and don’t realize they are disappearing. Don’t tell anyone — not even family, friends, or colleagues. Sharing is a natural tendency, but you need to stop it. Prevent your thoughts from reaching your tongue. No one should know anything.
Reprogram Your Mindset: Stop Caring What People Think
Focus on what you think. Reprogram your mind. The truth is, no one thinks about you as much as you think they do. You're trapped in the "spotlight effect." This leads to acting in ways to impress others, which often ends in failure.
Build a Self-Prioritized Identity
Create an identity that’s not selfish but prioritizes its own growth. You might have to sever connections with many people, but that's part of the process. Hide your pain, tears, failures — let people only see your success and growth.
Respect Comes from Success, Not Struggle
People only respect achievements, not effort. When Thomas Edison invented the light bulb, he had failed a thousand times, but today people remember him for his one success.
Protect Your Plans Like Treasure
Keep your plans close. Quietly work on them. Don’t show off your little progress or earnings. That’s foolishness. You're moving from average to above average — but you deserve much more.
Ghost Mode is Painful but Powerful
Call it ghost mode or monk mode — it’s not easy. Physically hurt, mentally tired, tears, failures — all will happen. But don’t show anyone. You don’t need sympathy or pity. Your only goal is to shock them with your success.
A.P.J. Abdul Kalam: A Role Model for Silent Work
Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam's early projects, like the LV3 rocket, failed. But his efforts made India a global leader in missile technology.
One Big Win Hides 100 Failures
To hide 100 failures, you only need one big success. Once you understand this, you’re ready to transform.
Define Your Target
Pick your targets — a degree, exam, business, passion, goals, looks, or finances. There must be something you're trying to fix.
Make Your Life Goal-Oriented
Write down "disappear," add photos, and hide it. Your life should revolve around your set targets. If you want to win, every hour of your day should be dedicated to those goals.
Become so obsessed with your goals that nothing else matters — no friends, no social media, no gaming, no binge-watching.
A Fighter’s Analogy: Outwork Everyone
A fighter who trains 14 hours will always beat someone who trains 8 hours and relaxes. Input decides output. Only one who trains more can beat him.
Reappear as an Unbeatable Version
When your transformation is complete, reappear. You’ll realize you were thinking too small. Now, you’ve become bigger than your thoughts. But the hunger for more will remain.
Peace in the Shadows
You will find peace in the shadows and a life more fulfilling than before.
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